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An overview of my first book on domestic abuse - Why didn't you just leave them?




 

There are so many misconceptions about abuse, and general lack of knowledge. I wanted to help people learn, but also show my story as examples of what can happen, particularly to a man.

 

This book contains information around the different types of abuse, tools and techniques that abusers and narcissists use to control their victims, tips for surviving, tips for getting out, and tips for moving on. All through the book are examples from my life and stories of what happened to me, as well a a big focus on how these things affect you emotionally and mentally.

 

I have made a YouTube series around some of the concepts in my books too, and a video overview of this book. Please subscribe to the channel to help it grow and reach people who need it, and also to see new videos daily. YouTube Channel

 

Below is the write up around Why didn’t you just leave them? which gives a good overview of what the book contains. 

 

 



 

 

Why didn’t you just leave them?

Can’t have been that bad if you stayed? You’re both as bad as each other.

Why didn’t you tell anyone? Why didn’t you go to the police?

Was it actually that bad? Was it even abuse? You must like it.

Aren’t you overreacting? I’d never put up with that. That would never happen to me.

In a world where misconceptions about emotional abusive relationships are rampant, understanding and empathy are desperately needed. Many survivors face damaging questions like, Why didn’t you just leave? and suffer in silence due to widespread ignorance about the nature of abuse.

For anyone seeking to comprehend the complexities of domestic abuse, understand narcissism, and support those affected, having the right tool is crucial!

And our self help book, Why Didn’t You Just Leave Them? by Jared Whitaker, is that essential support you've been looking for because it didn't start with you.

This healing book for men offers a deep dive into the realities of abusive relationships, written from the heartfelt perspective of a male survivor. Our self-help book for mental health dismantles harmful myths and provides understanding of the psychological and emotional manipulation that traps victims.

IN THIS BOOK, YOU'LL FIND:

Understanding Abuse Dynamics: Our book for healing the shame that binds you explains the complex dynamics of abusive relationships. It reveals how psychological and emotional manipulation traps victims, helping readers understand why surviving narcissistic abuse or leaving isn't simple.

Personal Stories and Real-life Experiences: The book features personal narratives from the author's own experiences as a male survivor, providing authenticity and empathy for overcoming emotional abuse, and for narcissistic abuse recovery.

Debunking Myths and Stereotypes: Our book challenges myths and stereotypes about healing from domestic abuse, fostering a more informed and compassionate dialogue. It helps you to recognize and understand abuse beyond common misconceptions.

Practical Advice and Strategies: Offering actionable advice, the book guides you on identifying abuse, seeking help, and starting the healing process. These strategies empower victims to take steps towards recovery and forgiving what you can't forget.

Empowerment and Healing Exercises: Included are practical exercises to help recognize signs of abuse, how to heal toxic thoughts, and take control. These exercises aim to empower survivors, helping them rebuild their lives and self-worth.

A Resource for Support Networks: This mental health book is invaluable for friends, family, and professionals supporting abuse survivors. It provides insights on offering effective support and understanding about healing from abusive relationships, making it a crucial resource for anyone aiding a loved one.

Transforming the Conversation: By promoting understanding, empathy, and practical solutions, healing from hidden abuse book aims to change the conversation around domestic abuse. It encourages a compassionate and proactive approach to addressing abuse.

Combining personal experience, thorough analysis, advice, and empowering exercises, our book is essential for survivors and their support networks to understand domestic abuse, narcissism, and healing after trauma.

Don't wait any longer - Unravel the layers of abuse and unmask narcissism. Your path to understanding and support starts here – seize you





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