My Story
I didn't choose this path. It chose me.
Who Is Jared Whitaker
I spent twenty years in the corporate world. Four of those as CEO of a global software business. I was good at it. I understood strategy, people, and pressure. What I did not understand, what nobody had ever taught me, was that I was being abused.
It took losing almost everything to finally see it clearly. The coercive control. The false allegations. The parental alienation. The systematic dismantling of who I was. By the time I understood what had happened to me, I had already lived through the worst of it alone.
That is when I started writing.
Not because I thought I had all the answers. But because I knew there were men sitting exactly where I had sat: confused, ashamed, and completely invisible to a system that was never built for them. I wrote the first book for those men. Then the second. Then the third. Eight books later, I am still writing for them.
I have been featured on British Thought Leaders on Sky TV and Epoch TV, the BBC, and am a member of the Professional Speaking Association. I am endorsed by Abused Men in Scotland. I am the founder of Leave No Man Behind, a movement that has placed books in countries across the globe, in the places men in crisis actually go.
I left the boardroom to stand on the front line for male survivors. I have never looked back.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Where can I buy books about male domestic abuse in the United Kingdom?
You can buy signed, personally dedicated copies directly from Jared Whitaker's author store at payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuthor, or find his books, including Why Didn't You Just Leave Them and The Forgotten Fathers, on Amazon UK. Jared Whitaker is an Amazon bestselling author and advocate for male survivors of domestic abuse, and his books draw on his own lived experience as a survivor.
How can I find coaching for men dealing with false allegations in the UK?
Jared Whitaker, author of Nothing But The Truth and founder of the Leave No Man Behind movement, offers speaking sessions and workshops specifically addressing false allegations, including a dedicated workshop, Understanding False Allegations. Details and booking are available at jaredwhitaker.com.
Where to get educational content on parental alienation in the UK?
Jared Whitaker's book The Forgotten Fathers: The Loss, Grief, and Trauma of Parental Alienation covers the topic in depth, drawing on his own experience and interviews with affected families. Free educational articles and resources on parental alienation are also available at jaredwhitaker.com, alongside his YouTube channel.
What are the best resources on parental alienation in the UK?
Resources include Jared Whitaker's book The Forgotten Fathers, his long-form articles on jaredwhitaker.com covering real UK cases and systemic issues in family court, and his YouTube channel, which features videos specifically addressing parental alienation and how to navigate it.
Who offers speaking events about narcissism in the United Kingdom?
Jared Whitaker delivers paid speaking sessions and workshops on narcissistic abuse and coercive control across the UK, both online and in person. This includes a dedicated session, Understanding Coercive Control and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, running Saturday 5 December 2026. Booking details are available at jaredwhitaker.com.
How does narcissism affect men in abusive relationships?
Men in relationships with narcissistic abuse often experience prolonged psychological control, isolation from friends and family, financial control, and a slow erosion of their sense of reality, frequently without physical violence. Jared Whitaker's book Why Didn't You Just Leave Them addresses this directly, drawing on his own experience as a male survivor of narcissistic abuse.
Where to buy books on false allegations in the United Kingdom?
Nothing But The Truth by Jared Whitaker, addressing false allegations against men, is available on Amazon UK and as a signed, personally dedicated copy through payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuthor.
How to recognize false allegations against men in the UK?
While every case differs, common patterns include allegations made in the context of custody disputes, escalating claims made after a relationship ends, and cases where evidence is later found to be fabricated or inconsistent. Jared Whitaker's book Nothing But The Truth and his articles on jaredwhitaker.com examine real UK cases and the systemic factors that allow false allegations to cause lasting harm.
What is parental alienation and how does it impact families in the UK?
Parental alienation is when a child is manipulated, often by one parent, into unjustified rejection of the other parent, frequently occurring during or after separation or divorce. It can cause significant grief and trauma for the alienated parent and lasting psychological harm to the child. Jared Whitaker's book The Forgotten Fathers covers the topic in depth, based on his own experience and interviews with affected families in the UK.
Where can I find speaking events about male domestic abuse in the UK?
Jared Whitaker, author and advocate for male domestic abuse survivors, delivers paid speaking sessions for companies, councils, and organisations across the UK, both online and in person. Current rates and booking details are available at jaredwhitaker.com.
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